Absolutely NOT!

This is how I feel about all of you who want me to STFU! If you do not like who I am or what I have to say, by all means do not visit my blog. I wish you well. I am not hard up for readers nor friends. I merely post information I feel is important to share with my readers. They can take it however they want. I'm not telling them how to think. I prefer and always have enjoyed FREEDOM of expression. I hope we never lose that in this country. I love our country and what it stands for in ALL her dysfunctional glory!

Absolutely NOT ~ Deborah Cox

[Chorus:]

Should I wear my hair in a ponytail?

Should I dress myself up in chanel?

Do I measure me by what you think?

ABSOLUTELY NOT, ABSOLUTELY NOT!

If I go to work in a mini-skirt

Am I givin' you the right to flirt?

I won't compromise my point of view

Absolutely not, absolutely not

Always waiting for someone

To make me happy, pick me up

I realize that someone is me

What you call life, that ain't living

Bless the child that's got his own

It's my season now, I STAND ALONE

Just thought that I would let you know

Some things you just can't control

[Repeat Chorus]

Told myself I won't complain

But some things have got to change

Not going to be a victim of

All your social push and shove

Right or wrong, you judge the same

My picture never fit your frame

What you thought, you'll never know

YOU CAN'T SEE ME WITH YOUR MIND CLOSED

[Repeat Chorus]

Now I see, life means more to me

More than fancy clothes

More than you'll ever know

All the ugly words that I heard you say

Made me stronger everyday

NOW I LIVE MY LIFE FOR ME!

[Repeat Chorus 3x]

Oh, ooh

Woah, oh, ooh

All my ladies say

Oh, ooh

Woah, oh, ooh

Absolutely not, absolutely not

All my ladies say

Oh, ooh

Woah, oh, ooh

All my ladies say

Absolutely not, absolutely not